1 of 13

I’m one of 13 siblings—some born in monogamy, some in polygamy, each with a different memory of the same family. One of 13 is where I piece those fragments together through essays, interviews, and reflection.

Launched 5 months ago

4 Crybaby - Part 2

I interviewed each sibling who grew up in polygamy. It feels like I’m talking to 13 different families. I thought I knew them. Their stories are all different.

4 Crybaby - Part 1

3 Maid - Part 2

3 Maid - Part 1

2 Neutral Ground - Part 2

2 Neutral Ground - Part 1

1 Lab Rat - Part 2

The parentified child often does not become aware of it until well into adulthood. Undoing these patterns starts with awareness and a willingness to let go of the old to make room for a point of contrast (what would it look like if my needs were met at that age).

1 Lab Rat - Part 1

Overview

One of 13 is a writing project built from anonymous interviews with children raised in a polygamous family, showcasing their truths as lived.